Here is the bottom line, looks tent to get you in the door but one's maturity and wisdom will get and keep the man. I have found if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. I won't make excuses for a man and his behavior it is what it is. I won't modify myself ever again for a relationship that's not meant to be, if my intuition (or spirit) says He's not the ONE! I'll save myself from the heartache. I am not a hard or bitter woman but if you don't treat me like I deserve while in a relationship than there is no room for friendship in the after mass. A man and his way of thinking is what it is, and it don't usually get any better, so if there is no meetings of the mind, that is if our soul makeup has nothing in common, I won't waste my time or yours. When two people have the same or similar core makeup, believes, family values they tend to be like soul mates and that's what I am looking for. 1) NO mom or baby drama, DO the right thing takes care of your kids and life will do right by you. 2) NO control factors, the only person you can control in a relationship is yourself. 3) There are boundaries in how a man should treat a woman, if a man goes outside those boundaries then he is about games and I don't have the time nor desire to play. If you have heard the song "God bless the Child that's got his own" well I like living by those principles. We all should bring something to the table. If you happen to have more education or somewhat financially more secure than me, well that's GREAT, but know this that does not qualify you to be a quasi-god! Bottom line you are a man, nothing more nothing less. I am looking for someone to complimentary...not Supplementary ME! If you have read to this point then you know what I am looking for and if you fill that ticket by all means please make contact.